Is he the one? How to know
You're sitting across from your date
Nodding your head and smiling as he talks
Feeling this thought creep up in the back of your mind that starts to take your attention...
So now you're only half listening to him
And the thought gets louder and louder....
You do your best to pay attention to what he's saying
so that when its time to respond you'll know what to say
But this thought is now steamrolling you....
It's asking...
"Is he the one!?"
This immediately gets you into your head and out of your heart
Causes you to feel a rush of tension, worry, anxiety
Creating a domino effect of internal questioning
That zaps your energy
And starts to make the date feel heavy
pressured
and like work.
But this internal battle is so understandable!
It's because you so badly WANT to find the One
and you want to know as soon as possible, if this person is worth your time or not
And there is a sweet, innocent, yet grippy part of you that is demanding to know this information NOW
A part of you that can't STAND the unknown
Can't stand to be patient and allow it to unfold naturally over time
Can't stand to potentially get hurt again and wants to mitigate any chances of that
And deep down...
this part of you sometimes doubts if your dream relationship will ever happen
^ This is why we attach to the outcome in dating
To find some sense of control over the situation
to try and wrangle the Great Unknown
lassoing it into order, structure,
perfection
But we all know...it doesn't work like that ;)
ESPECIALLY when it comes to love
There is a magic
a cosmic air to it all
a divine and destined unfolding for your True Love relationship to come into being
All that is required of you
Is that you be open
and curious
Sensing and intuiting how this person makes you feel in their presence...
and how they make you feel over time...
Practicing discernment
Using your voice to share needs, desires, boundaries, and values
Then patiently allowing things to unfold
Because the truth is-- if you're asking the question "Is he the one?"
you are not supposed to know the answer yet
When its time for you to know...the answer will already be crystal clear and you won't even need to ask it!!
So if you're asking this question, you are rushing the process
You're trying to skip to the end because the process of waiting, and being in the unknown
can be unbearable.
But what if-- you didn't feel the need to protect yourself?
or the need to speed things up
what if you could TRUST yourself
and trust in the unfolding?
Dating would become SO FUN!!
You would have a clear heart and a clear mind to truly see and sense if this person is right for you or not
over time without rushing it
You'd have clear access to your intuition, your inner compass of truth
that is guiding you and naturally protecting you
Without these intense attachments getting in the way,
its just two hearts connecting
exploring and getting to know one another
The pressure is off and now the energy is pure
You become irresistibly magnetic when you drop your attachment to the outcome
You become like the warmest, most inviting energy ever to a man
And you make it so the right connections can effortlessly flourish
And the wrong connections can quickly fall away
Its the most natural "time saver" ever ;)
This is what happens when you're being in your heart, detached and free
You align yourself with that natural, cosmic unfolding of you True Love relationship
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xoxo